Lingam massage

The lingam massage is not a massage in itself and is part of the tantra massage. The entire body is treated and the lingam massage can happen as the last part.

The Sanskrit word lingam is a spiritual term that refers to the male genitals and is seen as a symbol of fertility. The lingam is revered in Tantra and is considered an important organ of energy and power. Tantra massage is a complete system that tackles the entire body and not surprisingly the genitals. This integral approach makes this therapy unique and revolutionary and can produce extraordinary effects.

lingam hindu sculptureThe first step

Initially, in a tantra massage we release as many blockages of the chakras or energy nodes as possible. The main chakras are located on the front of the trunk. They ensure a smooth energy flow in your body. Relaxation and surrender are very important at this stage, which is why the therapist first pays extensive attention to the full-body oil massage.

Throughout the process, the therapist also works with outside pranic or cosmic energy. That is why we also work above and around the body during the oil massage without direct physical contact. In order to obtain an adequate energy flow, different treatments may often be required depending on the severity of the blockages and the possibility of surrender by the customer.

Main purpose of a lingam massage

The main purpose of tantric lingam massage is to learn to control your sexual energy and use it to achieve a higher quality, more energetic life.

The sexual energy, also called Ojas Shakti in Sanskrit, is the most powerful energy in the human body. Every individual is born with a sufficient amount of it. However, men lose this sexual energy with ejaculation. Through a lingam massage you learn to use this energy in yourself for spiritual and personal growth.

During the massage, this energy is generated and you learn together with the therapist to not let the sexual energy flow away through ejaculation, but to bring it or sublimate it to higher chakras. Once this energy passes your heart chakra, it is converted into powerful life energy that helps you feel more vital, show more creativity, stimulate the self-healing system, and so on. That is why we never allow ejaculation in a lingam massage because this means loss of that life energy. In a tantra massage it is just the intention to feel healthier and more energetic, not more tired!

Lingam massage - more than a massage of the penis

Lingam massageIf sufficient energy flow is possible during the tantra massage, the therapist can decide together with the client to proceed to the lingam massage. This massage aims to release the blockages in the lower chakras. We notice that the genital zones are very cramped in both men and women and blockages can be very intense. During the lingam massage, pressure points around and on the genitals are treated to release these blockages. These acts are not erotic in nature and not a means of masturbation. With intense blockages, some actions can even provoke pain. Communication between the therapist and the client is very important in this.

The sexual energy released during the lingam massage is directed to the higher chakras to transform into life energy. However, during the first treatment it is possible that there is still insufficient energy flow, so that this sexual energy remains trapped and provokes even more cramping. The therapist may therefore decide not to proceed to a lingam massage in the first place at that time.

Influence on sexual life

The blockages in the genital zone are often the cause of frequently occurring sexual dysfunctions such as impotence, premature ejaculation, reduced sensitivity,… A lingam massage can often solve or reduce these complaints.

Over time and through practice, a man gains more and more control over his sexual energy, and eventually he can also apply this newly found skill while making love. New sensual and spiritual heights are now at your fingertips and it will be possible to make love for extended periods of time and become multi-orgasmic.


Are you open as a man to broaden your experience and do you want to discover what an authentic tantra massage entails, in contrast to the Western form of tantra massage with a classic happy ending?

If you currently see lingam massage mainly in a sexual context, be sure to read the blog article Differences between a tantric and erotic massage.

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Many forms of “Tantra massage” are offered. We want to make clear that the lingam massage we offer is considered a professional, deeply healing, rejuvenating and restorative therapy and NOT an erotic sexual service for fulfilling sexual desires and fantasies.

A lingam massage is only performed if there is sufficient energy flow. Therefore, it is possible that this will not be done during an initial treatment. It is ultimately the therapist who decides if the lingam massage can take place and only with the explicit permission of the client.


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